Author: Roze Goes
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All the Single (White) Ladies! 💁🏼♀️💁🏻♀️💁♀️
What does it mean to be a lady? A single lady? A single black lady… with cats? How come cat ladies are never black? Why don’t black cat ladies (not a references to Halle Berry’s TURRIBLE rendition) have more representation in media!?
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Lessons in Adulting: Imposter Syndrome
When you’re a baby, no one shames you for not speaking English. Or any language besides cooing and burbling. {Actually no one should shame anyone for not speaking English, but that’s neither here not there! Heck you, xenophobes!} So why is it that once you you pass through the invisible doorway to presumed adulthood, are…
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FebYOUary Lesson #2: Don’t Hide!
Here goes something new. I’ll admit I was a little uncomfortable reacquainting myself with a camera. Knowing it would capture my new adult body a little less forgivingly. Knowing that I’m still writing and rewriting my definition of sexy on an etch-a-sketch. Heck it!
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20-Something: Young Adults Seem Stuck
I’ve got a bad case of the twenty-somethings. Specifically the late twenties. There’s fire burning under my butt 🔥🍑, yet it’s too hot to feel. This book called out to me. Maybe Robin Marantz Henig has the answers. Maybe no one does. Read more…
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TV Bae: Shonda Rhimes/Year of No
She’s old, and likes to lie. But in reading her humorous and heartfelt journey to self-fulfillment, I was inspired and reassured. If Shonda Rhimes, the inventor of Thursday nights can struggle and shine, so can I.
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After Irma. What Now?
Natural disasters, if not fatal, are often defining moments. Turning points. Do you muster the strength to start anew? What do you learn? How do you grow?
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A Week Without Netflix
Urban Dictionary defines “fasting” as the following: Fasting (v.) – A cleaning way of de-toxing your body of unwanted stuff. I need to detox. Clear out my Star Trek cache and sweat out a lot of backed up episodes of U.K. crime shows. Gotta get ot the unhealthy stuff… at least Monday – Thursday.
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Tally Taught Me
A trip to the state capital has proven to be much more impactful than the 5th grade field trip version.
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#LFTU Deliberate Action
The mode is the number you see most. Maybe there are some universal lessons that keep appearing and throwing off your average!
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Part-Time Lover
How do you go from no hours a week to 40+? What’s the cheat code? Lot’s of bathroom breaks? Coffee?
